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We are all beautiful
I don’t even want to imagine how many people are awake right now wishing it would all end. That someone will come along and make it all better. Some will choose to end it, tonight, they will decide to give up on reaching their happily ever after. And that alone is heartbreaking to me. Who the hell has the right to make you feel like shit, to make you feel empty, sad, confused, depressed, angry and alone in the world? Well the answer is no one. No one will ever have the right to make you feel that way. and if someone in your life is trying.. well honestly fuck them. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT. Why should we let them win? Cause they certainly don’t deserve to feel like they got the best of you. Or maybe its not a person that is making you feel horrible. Maybe its yourself.. It is so easy to get obsessed with what the media puts out there. They get girls to feel like the way they are is never going to be good enough. Sadly, they can put whatever message out there that they want. They have that power. But they will never have the power to effect you. that’s you decision. And i’m not saying its easy to ignore the magazines show casing girls at 90 pounds. Or that the people at school won’t make fun of you at school. But you can choose to stand above them. To show them that your strong, beautiful, smart all by being you. In this single life time we need to stand up for ourselves. We need to be ourselves every second of the day. And when you see someone in need, don’t ignore them, help them! Who knows, maybe one day they will be there to help you. Face it, WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL! In every single way imaginable! You can go so far in life if you choose to! Let’s all choose to cherish our crazy beautiful lives. I really hope this meant something to someone out their. Because i do care, and i honesty think everyone one in this messed up world is beautiful. So make the right decision in cherishing your life and making sure that the people around you do the same. If you ever need anyone to talk to, i will always be here. <3
11 things to know about Love
I personally think teenage love is a beautiful thing, the relationships you have as a teenager help make you who you are today. You have yet to get a better understanding of your emotions, and teenage love is probably making things a little more complicated for you. But that’s the beauty of being a teenager – having a flexible and more open mind. Teenage love is defiantly not easy, but for most it’s worth every second of it. Anyways, i put together 14 things that are essential in teenage love.
1. BE YOURSELF!- I’m sure you’ve heard this a thousand times, but its TRUE! Don’t ever change who you are for a guy. In the end it will NOT be worth it. Trust me!
2. Smile!- No really! Smiling is the best way to get a guys attention! A simple smile will make you look friendlier, happier and prettier. Smilies work wonders :)
3. YOU can ask a guy out first!- This isn’t the 1900s anymore girls! If you like someone take a chance! I know, rejection is all of our fears- but isn’t it better than letting the right guy pass you by?
4. You can’t force people to love you-I’m sorry, but it’s true. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how much you love or care for someone. He may not feel the same way. And that’s okay! Not everyone will feel the connection. And it’s completely normal! As soon as you learn to accept that, the right guy will come into your life!
5. There is NO deadline for your first kiss!- I can’t even begin to tell you how many girls feel like their weird since they haven’t had their first kiss! But honestly, i think girls are putting too much pressure on themselves and their friends. I know it’s hard not to feel this way, but really, the time will come! Don’t force it!
6. When in doubt, SAY NO!-Now this can be directed at a few things, but truly, if your not ready, say no. No one can force you to do something you’re not ready for. This “rule” can refer to more than just sex, think about it when tempted to do drugs, drink or do anything you’re unsure of!
7. Sex doesn’t prove anything!- Don’t assume that if you have sex with someone, then they won’t leave you! Make sure that when you realize you’re ready, you actually are! You’re first time needs to be with someone special, not a one night fling. You’re better then that!
8. Choose you’re girl friends over a guy!-I’m sure you’ve heard this before- “bros before hoes” “Chicks before dicks” Well, besides the harsh terminology, its true. Love relationships come and go, but friends will be there forever. If you find your true friends, never let them go because of a guy!
9. Space can be good!- Sometimes it’s good to give each other space. Believe it or not, but people are like trees. Crowd them and you stunt their growth. Give them space and they grow to their full potential.
10. Your life won’t end in a break up!- Honestly! A huge part of teenage love is the breakups! Sad but true, you’ll have to live with it. But in the end, you’ll be happy! I’m not saying everyone will be happily married, visiting their grandchildren and retired in florida in the end. But you can find happiness if you want it! The pain from your past breakups really will make you stronger! So embrace love and learn from it!
11. There is more to life then guys!- If your love life is not going so well as of the moment, then Learn to focus your energy on other areas of your life. Focus on school, family and friends! Let’s not forget about yourself! There truly is more to life than boys. Don’t let them, or the lack of them in your life, bring you down.
Always remember that things in reality aren’t as bad as you think in your head! Don’t let your emotions, or anything else get in the way of your happiness. Be honest about your feelings and never let a guy take advantage of you in any way! Love yourself first and you will find love with the right person!
** If you want any more tips or advice send me a message **
